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Redefining “IT Girl”: Finding the Version God Created

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Becoming the "It Girl": Is it costing you your identity? The world’s standards of being an “IT Girl” are, on the surface, pretty positive. Wake up early and start your day off right? Sounds great. Be ambitious and not lazy? Love that. Take care of yourself mentally and physically? Absolutely. Travel the world and wear designer clothing? Who wouldn’t enjoy that? But here’s the question no one seems to ask: If we all follow the exact same checklist to become the exact same "IT Girl," what happens to our identity? What if waking up before the sun isn't how God designed you to operate? What if being hyper-ambitious, constantly grinding, and obsessing over self-improvement isn’t actually holy hustle—but a distraction? What if the enemy’s newest trick is simply getting us to focus so much on ourselves that God’s purpose for us quietly slides to the back burner? I say this because I’ve lived it. For most of my life, I was a night owl. That was when creativity visit...

Unmasking The Jezebel Spirit

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 Unmasking The Jezebel Spirit You’ve probably heard the phrase *“the spirit of Jezebel”* in Christian circles—but what does it really mean? Let’s break down who this spirit is, how it operates, and how to overcome its influence. Who (or What) Is the Spirit of Jezebel? The Jezebel spirit takes its name from the biblical Queen Jezebel, whose story in 1 & 2 Kings reveals a manipulative, idolatrous, and power-hungry ruler. Her name means *“unhusbanded”* or *“without submission,”* reflecting a spirit that refuses accountability or partnership. The Jezebel spirit is a high ranking spirit and has many spirits under its control. This spirit leads people into sin. All demonic spirits do this but the Jezebel spirit stands apart from them as this spirit is not as compulsive as lower demons but exhibits political cunning as well as patience in its schemes. It may wait years to calculate and make its moves.  This is not just a “female” issue—the Jezebel spirit can operate through men o...

Progressive Healing

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 ...as they went, they were cleansed. In Luke 17:12-19 we read about 10 lepers healed by Jesus. The difference of this healing compared to many others we read about is that it was not an instantaneous healing.  In verse 14 it states that once Jesus saw the lepers, he said to them, "Go, show yourselves to the priests." and that's it. He didn't touch them, He didn't say anything more than just that. And that verse wraps up by stating "And so it was that as they went, they were cleansed. " This speaks volumes to me as someone who has become disheartened when I didn't get an immediate response to my prayer like I thought I should.  This is so dangerous for us as believers because it puts us in a position of demanding of God what we think He should do or how He should act.  And when He doesn't respond to us accordingly, we lose faith. When healing does not take place instantly our faith waivers and we sabotage our progressive healing. We need to stand...

Am I Really Grateful for God?

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The Gratitude Journal       This morning I decided to dig out my old gratitude journal and restart that habit.  I went back to the very beginning to see when I actually started this journal, because I certainly have not been faithful to it, and I saw that the very first entry was the day my husband got his desired job at his company. I scanned through a few more pages, reminiscing on everything I wrote out that I was grateful for each random day, until I finally got to today's page and started to fill it out. About five lines down I wrote I'm grateful for "God – obviously".  And then I stopped and thought about it. Why did I write that? Why did I feel the need to add 'obviously'.   Did I write that because I truly meant it or did I write that because I would have felt guilty for leaving God off my list?  Stopping and really thinking about it, am I truly grateful for God?  I realize that yes I can say and believe I am, but is that really ...

Trample

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 In Luke 10:19 Jesus says: "Behold, I give you the authority to TRAMPLE on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy,  and nothing shall by any means hurt you.". I've read this scripture dozens of times but for some reason this time the word TRAMPLE stuck out to me so I decided to look up the definition. TRAMPLE: to tread heavily on, roughly, carelessly ; to DOMINEER HARSHLY OVER,  to CRUSH ... This verse displays the utter disgust that we should have for the enemy and it shows that we should not be lenient on them at all! To look disgustingly down on and crush... Too often, we as Christians find ourselves either running from the enemy or just trying to live life like the devil doesn't exist. Why have we become so complacent in this battle that we are more inclined to turn a blind eye and ignore the enemy as they ravage our families, our health, our relationships, our world??   We have become so numb to the fiery anger we should have towards S...

God Is In Control??

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God Is In Control?? As Christians we have become comfortable using the phrase "God is in control". Yes, that brings us comfort and reminds us of a sovereign and Omni-present God that can bring us through a rough situation, but what does that tell non-believers about our God? A puppet master in the sky controlling everything we do, say, and think does not sound alluring. And with all the bad that happens in this world, saying that God is in control inadvertently puts the blame on Him when things go wrong.  What would be a better way to talk about God's sovereignty without giving the impression that He infringes upon our free will? What Does Controlling Mean? To be controlling means that a person attempts to conform another person to their own needs or desires through some form of manipulation, threat, or physical overpowering.  The Bible actually uses the words 'controlling' and 'manipulating' to describe the character of a demonic spirit. This spirit is th...

Spiritual Warfare: A Practical Guide - Part 3

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Spiritual Warfare: A Practical Guide - Part 3 In our last part on Spiritual warfare, we took an in depth look at the full armor of God and how to apply it daily. Below is a bonus thought to add even more fuel to your fire for God. Praise & Worship The Bible teaches us that the devil is  “a roaring lion, roaming around, seeking whom he may devour” . This is a daily thing. Especially if you want to be effective for God’s kingdom, you will have daily resistance, which is why putting on this armor daily is so important.  In addition to putting on the armor, the following will aid in success against the enemy.      I recently had dinner with a group of amazing women and picked their brains about what they do daily to stay close to God in the midst of their busyness. What was their daily training?  Full time mom of three, single mother working more than full time, recent empty nester working full time, and a full time working mother of two college kids and tw...